The brightest flames cast the darkest shadows. Likewise, beneath one's greatest strengths, lie their biggest flaws. Yet, aren't flaws but one's potential waiting to be harnessed? It is simply a matter of perspective. Deep within, the Torchbearer archetype has shadows that involve Emotional Authenticity and Concrete Familiarity. When the shadows are embraced, Torchbearers become their truest selves, reaching infinite heights. If neglected however, their greatest downfall awaits.

Everyone carries a shadow,
and the less it is embodied in the
individual’s conscious life, the blacker
and denser it is. At all counts, it forms
an unconscious snag, thwarting our
most well-meant intentions.

Carl Gustav Jung

The concept of shadows is rooted in the theories of Carl Gustav Jung, a Swiss psychiatrist who believed that the human psyche has an unconscious side that embodies perceived negative qualities we disassociate ourselves from. Yet, most are unaware of the shadows lurking in the abyss of their subconscious minds.

People prefer to rely on their instincts—one's natural traits—in dealing with the daily challenges of life. More often than not, when things aren't working out, people will cling to the traits they are familiar with, not realizing that their shadows could be the key to solving their problems. Before long, they will face a reckoning: the ultimate consequence of neglecting their shadows within.

When we acknowledge and integrate our inner shadows into our consciousness, we open ourselves up to fully embracing all aspects of who we are. By accepting and learning from our imperfections, we embark on a meaningful journey of self-discovery, unlocking our true potential. Ultimately, the process of embracing our shadows can lead to greater inner peace and tremendous personal growth.

This section will shed light on the blind spots of the Torchbearer, illustrating how they will be affected by their shadows. Torchbearers will learn about the events leading up to their reckoning, how they might react, and how they can overcome it. More importantly, it gives Torchbearers a new perspective on life through the lens of their shadows, changing the way they approach life forever.

The Unsuspecting Path To Darkness

Torchbearers are among the archetypes that desire a sense of responsibility to propel their communities forward. Nothing fulfills them more than accomplishing great feats with their people. With the greater good in mind, Torchbearers strive to bring about real change to their groups as those people are integral to who they are. Hence, if their communities were to fall apart, Torchbearers would be left helpless and devastated, believing that they have failed everyone.

It is the brightest of lights that
casts the darkest of shadows.

Wanting things to work effectively, Torchbearers do their best to ensure that everyone lives up to certain standards. Unfortunately, not everyone is capable enough to meet their expectations. Yet, they may be critical of those they perceive to be incompetent. Torchbearers who are more assertive might even be controlling—micromanaging everything and everyone around them. Even with the best intentions, such arrogance will surely garner hatred from those around them.

Worse yet, some Torchbearers may be obsessed with solving people's problems, thinking it is the best way to show care. However, in a desperate attempt to do so, they may overstep boundaries and make decisions that are not theirs to make. They might even force their advice down people's throats, believing it helps. Unsurprisingly, people will slowly reject their assistance or avoid them altogether. In the end, their well-intended efforts will only push others away.

The truth is, Torchbearers are driven by recognition or respect from their communities. Sadly, when the people they care for begin to leave their lives, they will eventually crack and fall into a downward spiral. In that dark and unfamiliar place, a realization will dawn upon them: the validation that truly matters is actually their own. Knowing this, Torchbearers will try to love themselves, but in the process, they may swing to the extreme of being awfully childish and immature.

In that state, Torchbearers act out of character, behaving selfishly under the guise of self-love. They act on their childish feelings, having absolutely no concern for others. Sometimes, they might even lash out emotionally or break down randomly, completely possessed by intense emotions that they fail to understand. Fortunately, most Torchbearers do not dwell here for too long. They bounce back quickly and will soon revert to their logical selves; and the cycle continues.

An eclipse hides the light of the sun, briefly, just like the shadow that eclipses the true nature of a person.

This phenomenon is a manifestation of the Torchbearer's darkest shadow—the difficulty to be in touch with their emotions. They do not value feelings as it hinders progress. As such, people might harshly berate them, calling them evil and heartless monsters. But these criticisms cut deep only because they are grounded in some truth. As bad as it sounds, this shadow is not a weakness, let alone a curse. It is but an untapped strength that lies dormant, ready to be awakened.

To unleash its potential, this shadow must be embraced with open arms. However, Torchbearers tend to avoid dealing with their emotions as it is their most vulnerable aspect. Feelings are very alien to them and they tend to shove them down as soon as they surface. Therefore, Torchbearers often act as if everything is okay in order to conceal their real fear: that emotions make them feel weak and out of control. However, if Torchbearers continue to neglect this shadow, they will be stuck in a cycle of ignorance forever.

Your emotions make you human.
Even the unpleasant ones have a purpose.
Don't lock them away. If you ignore them, they just get louder and angrier.

Sabaa Tahir

To break free and thrive, Torchbearers must do away with excuses and face their fear head-on. When emotions bubble up, they should not repress them. Instead, they need to muster the courage to explore those feelings. It might be overwhelming, but the pain endured is essential to better grasp the complexity of their own emotions. With a deeper understanding, Torchbearers might even uncover a meaningful purpose, giving them a newfound drive to accomplish more.

As such, Torchbearers who have reached a higher stage of growth will find themselves empowered by this shadow. Such Torchbearers are well connected with their inner selves, embracing their emotions and inner voice with ease. Above all, they most likely would have found a deeper purpose that fuels their relentless hunger to accomplish. With this shadow mastered, Torchbearers will achieve massive success; the kind that is meaningful to everyone, including themselves.

When Darkness Meets Light

Not all shadows are dark and intimidating. Among them lies one that serves as a source of inspiration. Nonetheless, it is also an illusion as it lures Torchbearers into the false impression that they are good at it. That being said, this illusion is no stranger to them, making it easier to connect with. More importantly, grasping it will bring them one step forward in their journey of growth. Evoking a sense of awe and wonder, its presence will never fail to fascinate Torchbearers.

As mentioned previously, Torchbearers are most effective when thinking about innovative solutions. It often annoys them when people rigidly stick to traditional rules for no good reason. Torchbearers are unafraid to experiment, always adopting new and unconventional ways in solving problems. By exploring unique concepts, they come up with progressive ways to manage their teams. Thus, Torchbearers are creative leaders, conceiving novel ideas to fulfill their goals.

It's important to try and stay in the chapter that you're in... Not be constantly living
in the potential future.

Neil Patrick Harris

Unfortunately, Torchbearers who dwell in the abstract will soon have reality biting them in the back. They tend to neglect the mundane but necessary aspects of their lives out of laziness. Luckily, most Torchbearers are aware of this weakness early on and will do their best to organize their chaotic lives. To keep things in order, they create detailed schedules and checklists. And when they follow through with their plans, they gain a profound sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

However, Torchbearers cannot change the fact that this isn't something they normally do. Yet, clouded by this illusion, they may hold on to the naive belief that they are naturals at it. Under the spell of delusion, Torchbearers become convinced that they are among the most structured and organized of people. Perhaps when they can translate the imaginary schedules in their minds into consistent action, they may then claim to be the opposite of who they truly are.

Instead of dwelling in this fantasy, Torchbearers should snap out of it, and accept that this is not their key strength. If this is a hard pill to swallow, then all they have to do is open their eyes to look at those who have stuck to their schedules for decades. Torchbearers will quickly realize that their habits and routines only exist as a concept in their minds; seldom in reality. Hopefully, this truth will humble them and show them that they have so much more to learn.

All in all, Torchbearers are deeply inspired by those who live a structured and disciplined life, even if they find them annoying at times. Secretly, they wish they could be like them—reliable and responsible. The good news is, Torchbearers who see through this illusion will begin to cultivate habits and commit to the ones that they have already created. In time, they will establish consistent routines to guide themselves, ones that will transform their lives for the better.

Embracing Your Shadows

The Torchbearer's shadows may appear menacing at first, but now that they are brought to light, there is no reason to fear them. Despite that, one cannot afford to be complacent. Whatever happens, Torchbearers must keep a close eye on their shadows as they can drastically shape a person’s destiny. By developing their shadows, Torchbearers will undergo exponential growth, raising themselves up to greater heights.

While the saying “focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses” may be true in certain contexts, it actually leads to a painful divide within us in most cases. By concentrating on our strengths, we tend to suppress our shadows deeper and deeper, neglecting them by overplaying our strengths. And when our shadows are left in the dark, they will quietly fester, bringing about a dreadful reckoning sooner or later.

Unexpressed emotions will never die.
They are buried alive and will come
forth later in uglier ways.

Sigmund Freud

With a newfound understanding, Torchbearers will learn to embrace their shadows within. Rather than shutting them off, healthy Torchbearers will approach their shadows with curiosity and calmness, seeking to uncover the underlying reasons behind their unexpected presence. After all, our shadows are not bad parts that are trying to sabotage our lives. As “awful” as they may seem, they can actually help us cope better, especially in areas that we deem most stressful.

Nevertheless, the shadow's attempt at being the hero often fails miserably, causing Torchbearers more pain and problems in life. Whenever these shadows resurface, they often wreak havoc, as they have been neglected for far too long. Instead of rejecting these parts of themselves, Torchbearers should learn to make space for them in their hearts. Only by accepting their shadows can Torchbearers unite all parts of themselves to become a healthy whole.

Knowing the path forward, it is now up to Torchbearers to transform for better or worse. Of course the journey ahead will be difficult, with countless obstacles to triumph. However, those hurdles come part and parcel with growth. The path chosen is not going to be easy; but it will most definitely be worth it.

Working with our shadows can provide a transformative and enlightening experience, enabling us to live more authentically, compassionately, and meaningfully. Hopefully, everyone will find the courage to push forward, face their fears, and embrace their shadows as they embark on this never-ending journey of personal growth.

Now that you have understood a large part of what it means to be Torchbearers, you might be wondering what the best steps are for one to become better. And that's what the next section is all about: ten concrete actions that can be easily taken to effectively accelerate the Torchbearer's personal growth!

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